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It’s happened countless times. A customer calls us for a moving estimate, convinced they’ll need just a few boxes and a couple of hours to load up their belongings. Then, reality hits. Closets are packed with things they forgot they owned, drawers are overflowing with “just in case” items, and that one storage room? Let’s just say it’s more of a time capsule than a functional space.
Decluttering before a move is more than just a way to reduce moving costs (though that’s a big plus). It’s a chance to start fresh, lighten your load, and make smarter choices about what comes with you. Whether you’re downsizing, relocating across the country, or just trying to avoid the stress of unpacking unnecessary junk, this guide will walk you through how to declutter before moving, without the regret.
Why Decluttering Before Moving Matters More Than You Think
One of the biggest mistakes people make when moving? Bringing everything with them. Over the years, we’ve seen customers pay hundreds, sometimes thousands, of dollars to move boxes they never even open in their new home.
Decluttering before a move is more than just fitting fewer boxes in the truck, it’s about arriving in your new home feeling lighter, more in control, and ready for a fresh start. We’ve seen customers breathe a sigh of relief after downsizing, realizing they left behind the stress along with the extra stuff.

If you’re interested in downsizing, here are some article for you:
- Practical Tips for Downsizing
- 8 Tips on How to Downsize From Family Home to an Apartment
- Downsizing Tips for Seniors: A Compassionate Guide to Simplifying Your Move
Our Advice: If you’re unsure whether an item is worth moving, ask yourself: Would I buy this again today? If the answer is no, it might be time to let it go.
Next, let’s look at why some people struggle to declutter and how to overcome those challenges before moving day.
Understanding Your Decluttering Personality Type
Over the years, we’ve noticed something interesting - decluttering isn’t just about stuff; it’s about mindset. Some customers let go of things easily, while others struggle with every single item. The difference? It all comes down to personality.
We’ve worked with every type of declutterer, and we’ve learned that understanding why you hold onto things makes the process much easier. Which one of these sounds like you?
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The "Just in Case" Hoarder
We’ve moved customers who packed entire boxes labeled "Miscellaneous - Just in Case." Inside? Unused kitchen gadgets, stacks of old magazines, tangled cords from devices they no longer own, and even a full collection of hotel shampoo bottles.
We get it, there’s comfort in feeling prepared. But here’s the reality: 99% of “just in case” items never get used. Instead, they take up space, add weight to moving trucks, and increase costs.
How to Let Go:
Try the Replacement Test → Ask yourself:
- If I needed this later, could I replace it easily? (Most small items cost less than $20 to replace.)
- Would I even remember I had this in storage? (If not, you definitely don’t need it.)
Mover’s Tip: Instead of keeping everything, create a small, designated “essentials” box with truly useful emergency items. Everything else? Donate or toss it.
The Sentimental Keeper
If we had a dollar for every time we heard, “I can’t throw this away - it has memories!” we’d probably own a fleet of moving trucks by now. We understand, some things aren’t just “stuff.” They represent moments, people, and milestones in your life. But when your sentimental items start filling boxes instead of just a small keepsake drawer, it’s time to rethink what you’re holding onto.
How to Let Go Without Losing the Memory:
- Photograph sentimental objects before letting them go - You don’t need to keep every childhood trophy if you have a picture of them.
- Keep only the best - Choose one concert T-shirt, not ten. One birthday card, not a shoebox full.
- Limit yourself to one memory box - If it doesn’t fit inside, it’s time to reassess.
Mover’s Tip: We’ve had customers move entire storage units full of nostalgia, only to realize they never open the boxes. Be intentional. Keep what truly matters.
The Aspirational Collector
This one hits home for a lot of people. We’ve helped move customers with boxes full of brand-new fitness equipment, unread self-improvement books, and untouched art supplies - all representing who they wanted to become rather than who they actually were.
Holding onto aspirational clutter can feel like holding onto hope - but in reality, it just takes up space and adds stress.
How to Declutter Aspirational Items:
- Be honest with yourself → If you haven’t used it in a year, will you really start now?
- Set a usage deadline → “If I don’t use this pasta maker in the next month, I’ll donate it.”
- Find it a better home → Someone else will actually use that expensive yoga mat collecting dust in your closet.
Mover’s Tip: Instead of packing these items, ask yourself if you’d buy them again today. If not, it’s time to let them go.
How to Declutter Fast Before a Move - The 3-Phase Approach
We’ve helped thousands of customers sort through their belongings, and the biggest mistake we see? People trying to declutter everything at once. That’s overwhelming and a guaranteed way to give up halfway through.
Instead, we recommend breaking it down into three fast-moving phases.
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Phase 1: The Easy Wins (2-3 Weeks Before Moving)
Start with the stuff you won’t even miss, the obvious clutter. These items take up space without adding value, and getting rid of them builds momentum.
What to Get Rid of First:
- Expired items → Medications, makeup, pantry goods. These have no reason to move with you.
- Broken things you swore you’d fix → If you haven’t fixed it by now, you won’t. Toss it.
- Duplicates → How many coffee mugs do you really need?
- Clothes you haven’t worn in a year → If it doesn’t fit, is out of style, or still has the tags, let it go.
- Old paperwork → Scan important documents, then shred the rest.
Mover’s Tip: Don’t stop and reminisce, this phase is about quick wins. If it’s an easy “no,” toss or donate it immediately.
Phase 2: The Reality Check (1-2 Weeks Before Moving)
Now comes the tougher part - deciding what’s worth moving. We tell customers this: Every item you move costs you time, money, and effort. Make sure it’s worth it.
Ask Yourself These Questions:
- Have I used this in the last year? If not, will you really use it in your new home?
- Would I buy this again today? If not, why take it with you?
- Does this item serve a purpose or bring real joy? If it’s just taking up space, reconsider.
What to Declutter in This Phase:
- Books you won’t re-read → Keep favorites, donate the rest.
- Decor that no longer suits your style → No reason to start fresh with old clutter.
- Gifts you’ve kept out of obligation → If you don’t love it, let it go.
- Hobby gear you never actually use → That sewing machine, fancy kitchen gadget, or camping gear? If it’s collecting dust, it’s time to move on.
- Tech you’ve upgraded from → Old phones, laptops, and cables you don’t even recognize—donate or recycle them.
Mover’s Tip: If you’re unsure, pack it separately in a “Maybe” box and label it with a date. If you don’t use it before moving day, you don’t need it.
Phase 3: The Final Cut (Last Week Before Moving)
Moving day is almost here, and there’s no more time for long debates. Now, the goal is speed:
- Too late to sell? Call a charity that offers free pickup.
- Not sure what to do with leftover clutter? Box it and drop it off at a donation center.
- Still have items you might need? Label a ‘Deal With Later’ box - but keep it small.
Mover’s Tip: At this stage, if you’re debating whether to keep something, ask yourself: “Would I pay someone $50 to pack and move this?” If not, it’s time to say goodbye.
What to Throw Away When Moving - Non-Negotiables
One of the first things we tell our customers? Some things aren’t worth moving at all. They’ll only add to your costs, clutter, and stress. If it falls into one of these categories, toss, donate, or recycle it now.
1. Anything That’s Broken, Stained, or Damaged
We can’t count how many times customers packed broken lamps, stained clothes, or chipped plates thinking, “I’ll fix it after the move.” Spoiler: They never do. If you haven’t repaired it by now, you won’t. Let it go.
2. Cords, Chargers & Electronics You Don’t Recognize
If you have a box full of mystery cables or old electronics that haven’t been turned on in years, it’s time to say goodbye. Most recycling centers or electronic stores accept e-waste drop-offs.
3. Old Paperwork You Can Digitize
Don’t haul years of bills, receipts, or outdated manuals to your new home. Scan and shred anything you don’t need in physical form. (Exception: Keep originals of legal documents like birth certificates, tax records, and home ownership papers.)
4. Freebies & Unwanted Gifts
If you’re only keeping it because someone gave it to you, ask yourself - do you actually use it? If not, donate it. We’ve moved people who packed entire boxes labeled “gifts I feel bad throwing away”. Don’t be that person.
5. Multiples of Everyday Items
- 15 mismatched coffee mugs? Keep your favorites, donate the rest.
- Dozens of hotel shampoo bottles? Toss them.
- Five sets of wine glasses but you rarely drink? Pare down.
6. Anything That Stresses You Out
We’ve witnessed customers hold onto clothes that don’t fit, old love letters, and items tied to stressful memories. Moving is a fresh start, don’t bring emotional baggage with you.
Mover’s Tip: If you hesitate to throw something out, ask yourself - would I even notice if this disappeared? If the answer is no, let it go.
How to Sell or Donate Items - Making the Process Painless
We’ve helped countless people downsize before a move, and one thing we’ve learned? People overestimate the resale value of their stuff and underestimate how much effort selling takes.
If you’re looking to get rid of things fast, here’s how to sell, donate, or responsibly dispose of unwanted items without wasting time.

Selling: What’s Worth the Effort?
Selling makes sense for high-value items, but don’t fall into the trap of trying to sell everything, it’s often not worth the hassle.
Best Items to Sell
- Furniture in good condition - Facebook Marketplace, Craigslist, or OfferUp
- Electronics (laptops, gaming consoles, high-end appliances) - eBay, Gazelle, BuyBackWorld
- Designer clothing & accessories - Poshmark, The RealReal, ThredUp
- Collectibles & specialty items - eBay, auction sites, or niche collector groups
Not Worth Selling (Just Donate Instead!)
- Old books (libraries & donation centers won’t take most of them)
- Basic clothing & shoes (unless they’re brand-name & in excellent condition)
- Outdated electronics (your 2010 laptop won’t sell—recycle it instead)
Donating: The Fastest Way to Declutter
For most items, donating is easier and faster than selling and it helps someone in need. Many organizations even offer free pickup for large furniture or bulk donations.
Where to Donate (By Category)
- Furniture & Housewares → Habitat for Humanity ReStores (many offer pickup)
- Clothing & Shoes → Goodwill, The Salvation Army
- Books → Better World Books, schools, shelters
- Non-Perishable Food → Local food banks (check Feeding America)
- Specialty Items (old makeup, worn-out clothes, etc.) → Terracycle (for hard-to-recycle goods)
Common Mistakes When Selling or Donating (And How to Avoid Them)
Mistake #1: Trying to Sell Everything → Be realistic. If it’s under $20, donating is the better move.
Mistake #2: Waiting Until the Last Minute → Some donation centers require appointments so book early.
Mistake #3: Ignoring Pick-Up Services → Large charities offer free pickup for big items - save yourself the hassle.
Mistake #4: Donating Junk → Don’t dump broken furniture or unusable items - donation centers won’t accept them.
Mover’s Tip: If you need everything gone fast, call a local charity for a bulk donation pickup. It clears out a lot at once, no heavy lifting required.
Common Decluttering Mistakes to Avoid
After helping thousands of customers downsize before a move, we’ve seen decluttering mistakes that cause more stress than they solve. Here’s what NOT to do plus what to do instead.

Mistake #1: The "Box and Decide Later" Trap
This happens over and over, people toss questionable items into a "decide later" box, thinking they'll go through it at the new place. Spoiler: They never do. Instead, they move clutter from one home to another.
What to Do Instead: If you're unsure about something, ask:
- "Would I notice if this item disappeared?"
- "Would I pay to replace it if it got lost?"
If the answer is no, don’t pack it.
Mover’s Tip: Create a “Maybe” box but set a firm deadline (e.g., "If I don’t use this within 60 days of moving, I’ll donate it").
Mistake #2: The Mass Purge Regret
Some customers get so caught up in the decluttering frenzy that they accidentally throw out things they need, only to rebuy them weeks later. Decluttering should be intentional, not rushed.
What to Do Instead: Instead of tossing everything in a panic, sort smartly:
- Essential items → Pack immediately
- Donate/sell items → Move these out of your home ASAP
- Uncertain items → Store in a “Maybe” box for review after the move
Mover’s Tip: If you’re unsure, box it separately and label it "Check Before Unpacking." That way, you don’t make impulse decisions you'll regret.
Mistake #3: The Replacement Cycle
Decluttering only to repurchase the same items later is a waste of money and effort. We’ve witnessed customers donate winter coats, only to buy new ones six months later.
What to Do Instead: Before donating something, ask:
- "Will I actually need this in the next year?"
- "Is this something I use seasonally?"
If yes, keep it. If no, let it go.
Mover’s Tip: If it’s an expensive item you’re hesitant to let go of, check resale value first. If you can get good money for it, it’s worth selling rather than tossing.
Mistake #4: Forgetting the Environmental Impact
Too often, people throw everything in the trash without thinking about better disposal options. Many items can be recycled, donated, or repurposed instead of ending up in a landfill.
What to Do Instead: Before dumping, check local recycling and donation programs:
- Electronics → Best Buy Recycling (for e-waste)
- Furniture & Housewares → Habitat for Humanity ReStores
- Clothing → H&M's Garment Collection Program (recycles textiles)
Mover’s Tip: For bulk disposal, some cities offer "big trash days" or donation pickups - check your local options before move day.
Maintaining a Clutter-Free Life After Moving
Decluttering before a move is one thing, staying clutter-free in your new home is another. Too many customers go through the effort of downsizing, only to fill their new space with unnecessary items within months.
Here’s how to keep your home organized long after moving day.
- The One-In, One-Out Rule
Every time you bring something new into your home, something else has to go. This simple habit prevents clutter from creeping back in.
Example: Bought a new sweater? Donate or toss an old one.
Upgraded your coffee maker? Rehome the old one - don’t stash it “just in case.”
Mover’s Tip: Keep a donation box somewhere accessible (like the closet or garage). When it’s full, drop it off at a charity.
- Set a “Declutter Date” Every 3-6 Months
Decluttering isn’t a one-time event, it’s an ongoing process. The easiest way to stay ahead of it? Schedule a declutter day.
- Pick a seasonal date: Start of summer, new year, or before the holidays.
- Set a 30-minute timer per room - decluttering doesn’t have to take all day!
- Do a quick scan: If you haven’t used it since the last declutter, let it go.
- Create a Home for Everything (No “Junk Zones” Allowed!)
Clutter builds up when things don’t have a designated place.
- Junk drawers that swallow random items → Use small organizers.
- Piles of mail on the counter → Get a wall-mounted mail sorter.
- Shoes, bags, and coats scattered everywhere → Hooks & baskets solve this fast.
Ask yourself: “Where does this item belong?” If it doesn’t have a home, find one or reconsider if you need it.
Mover’s Tip: Make organizing effortless. If you have to fight to put something away, you won’t keep up with it.
- Question Every New Purchase: “Where Will This Live?”
Before buying anything, ask:
- Where will this go in my home? (If you don’t have an answer, don’t buy it.)
- Do I already own something similar? (If yes, why get another?)
- Will this add real value to my life? (Or is it just a momentary impulse?)
Impulse purchases are the #1 way clutter sneaks back in. Be intentional.
- Limit “Memory Clutter” (Sentimental Items)
Some people keep entire moving boxes of sentimental clutter, things they never unpack but feel guilty getting rid of.
- Keep the best, let go of the rest. One meaningful item beats 20 forgotten ones.
- Photograph sentimental items before donating. The memory stays, but the clutter doesn’t.
- Set a “Memory Box” size limit. If it doesn’t fit, it’s time to edit.
Mover’s Tip: If you’re holding onto something “just in case my kids want it”, ask them now. Most don’t want it.
FAQ - Your Decluttering Questions Answered
After years of helping customers through the moving process, we’ve heard every decluttering dilemma possible. Here are the most common questions and our expert answers.
Q: How long before moving should I start decluttering?
Ideal timeline: 4-6 weeks before your move. This gives you enough time to make thoughtful decisions, sell/donate items, and avoid last-minute panic.
Short on time? Even 1-2 weeks is enough to make a big impact; focus on high-clutter areas first (closets, storage rooms, garages).
Mover’s Tip: If you’re down to the wire, follow the “10-Second Rule” - pick up an item and decide within 10 seconds whether to keep, donate, or toss.
Q: What if I don’t have time for a full decluttering process?
Prioritize quick wins. If you’re racing against the clock, focus on:
- Duplicates (extra kitchen tools, multiple phone chargers, excess linens)
- Expired items (medications, pantry goods, old beauty products)
- Items you forgot you owned (if you didn’t remember it, you don’t need it)
- Anything you’d never pay to move (bulky, outdated, or unnecessary items)
Mover’s Tip: Skip deep sorting. Use the Trash, Donate, Pack system for speed—no second-guessing!
Q: How do I handle family heirlooms I don’t want but feel obligated to keep?
We’ve moved countless families who struggle with sentimental clutter. The guilt is real but so is the stress of holding onto things you don’t want.
If you’re only keeping something because you ‘feel guilty,’ ask yourself:
- Would someone else in my family actually want this? If yes, pass it along.
- Would a photo of it be enough? If yes, take one and let it go.
- Do I truly love this, or is it just habit? If it’s just habit, move on.
Mover’s Tip: If you’re keeping something purely out of guilt, remind yourself: Your memories are not tied to objects.
Q: What’s the fastest way to get rid of a lot of stuff quickly?
If you need to clear out fast, here’s how to offload items in record time:
- Call a donation pickup service - The Salvation Army & Habitat for Humanity offer free pickups for furniture & household goods.
- Post a “FREE STUFF” listing - List items on Facebook Marketplace, Craigslist, or Nextdoor for quick local pickup.
- Use a junk removal service - or local haulers will take everything in one trip.
- Drop bulk items at a local thrift store - Goodwill, shelters, and charities accept most household donations.
Mover’s Tip: If you don’t have time to drop items off, list them for free online, someone will grab them within hours.
Q: How do I know if I’ll regret getting rid of something?
A lot of customers hesitate to let go of “what if I need this?” items. Here’s how to make the decision easier:
- Ask yourself: “Would I even notice if this disappeared?”
- Would I buy this again today if I didn’t already own it?”
- Set a “Regret Test” box - Pack items you’re unsure about. If you don’t use them within 3 months, donate them.
Mover’s Tip: 95% of people never miss what they declutter. The space you gain is almost always worth it.
The Final Step in Your Decluttering Journey
Decluttering before a move isn’t just about getting rid of things, it’s about starting fresh in a home that works for you, not against you.
We’ve witnessed firsthand how letting go of unnecessary clutter transforms not just a space, but a mindset. Our customers tell us time and time again: moving with less makes the entire process easier, less stressful, and more enjoyable.
Final Moving Day Reminders:
- Pack only what you love, use, and need -don’t waste time or money moving clutter.
- Use donation pickups & online marketplaces for quick decluttering.
- Give yourself permission to let go - your memories stay, even if the items don’t.
Decluttering isn’t the end of the moving process, it’s the first step toward making your new space a place you truly love.
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